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QueenCap

Do men generally prefer blonde or brunettes? Or is this more an individual thing? (No nasty answers plz)

I was blonde when I met hubby. I've gone back and forth over the years, but he hates me with brown hair. So I'm trying to get back to what he likes, just to please him.. but it's so upsetting that he loves blonde so bad. What's even more confusing to me, is that he is Greek, I'm Italian, so I thought he would naturally prefer darker features. Is this an individual preference for men? Or do men generally like blondes?

Posted Aug 16, 2018, 9:46 PM UTC

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Net_User•

It’s a personal preference. I for one go back and forth between preferring blondes and brunettes (and more often than not, my preference at any given moment is the one my last girlfriend DIDN’T have).

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QueenCapOP•

Lol, cool. That's some mean hate U got for the ex! Good to know!

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Net_User•

Eh, I wouldn’t call it hate. But the point of that example is to show what you like can be pretty arbitrary. Most people’s preferences really don’t have any rhyme or reason to them.

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QueenCapOP•

Ok cool , that's a good point. I just Wana make sure he doesn't stray. I'm happy to look how he wants. Lol. Even look at another. I'm such a jealous person. Or insecure.? Either way, I'd love more male opinions on the topic! Thanks u

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Dahbakon•

personally i prefer redheads to both but i married a brunette.

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QueenCapOP•

But do you find her less attractive as brunette tho? Or just the same as always?

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Dahbakon•

she dies her hair maybe twice a year and it's always different coulers, red,blue,green and pink have in the last couple of years alone. i don't really think her hair plays into why i'm attracted to her all that much. while i prefer redheads naturally it's not a major factor in what i find attractive in a women.

i guess to answer your question i find her more attractive with dark hair but prefer when it's red.

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QueenCapOP•

Nice👌 you seem to be happy with any colour she wants.. that's cool. You obviously didn't marry her for her hair anyway. Lol. But I just dont feel up to his " hot standard of attraction" when I'm brown. Maybe I'm thinking too much into it, or I'm way too insecure from his (sometimes cruel comments).. I think my brain just exploded

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Dahbakon•

If your man is being cruel call him out on it, you have the right to be what you wanna be. And it's not like he's doing you a favour by dating you, it should be mutual. I didn't like it when my wife got piercings on her lip but I didn't make cruel comments about it. Try talking to your man and asking him what he wants and telling him.what you want.

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J3tL33•

My answer is.....NASTY!

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QueenCapOP•

What do U think is nasty? Why?

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J3tL33•

Because you said no nasty answers. So I answered nasty. Lmao.

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QueenCapOP•

🤦😊 my bad, Ive had a fucked up week to say the least. U should see my latest deal. Cute tho! Lol . U got any specific colours U like?

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J3tL33•

Dyed hair girls. Exotic colors.

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