Dear manraptors, how does one acquire a...fuckbuddy?

By spending a ton of time on the internet and asking dumb questions

I've had a few, the latest one I've been hooking up with for over a year now. The trick is, be friends with them, but casually flirt with them too and see how they react to it. Make them feel comfortable with you AND see you in a sexual manner. The worst thing you could do is make them feel uncomfortable, so don't be the creepy guy who comes on waaaay too strong (it's a fine line). Chances are, nothing will happen, but you might find a girl who does go for it and you hook up. If so, after wards pretend nothing has happened. Again, it's all about making them feel comfortable that the relationship hasn't fundamentally changed and things aren't going to get weird. Depending on the girl, you may find yourself in a position where she wants to continue this, but again, you don't want to be coming on too strong pushing for this type of relationship. If they don't want to continue the physical part, that's fine, you had a one night stand with someone you can still be friends with.

This is the most important part, don't EVER lie to them about your intentions. I typically won't bring up that conversation but it's bound to come up. If you want nothing to do with a relationship, be honest and tell them that, and if they aren't comfortable with that idea then things should probably end right there. Also, don't EVER do anything date related (going to the movies, dinner etc.), it will always lead to them seeing you as a boyfriend and not just a friend they happen to sleep with. I don't mind going out with them in social situations where mutual friends are involved, especially as this is a good way to introduce the idea of going back to your place ;). I hope that helps you in your quest.

ladyraptor here, I would say go to bars and meet women who aren't looking for a long-term relationship. This is just based on my previous experiences and observations. A girl gets drunk and hooks-up wondering why the guy never calls her back except on weekends and late at night, only to realize that she has become an fb. I guess this is the female version of the friendzone?

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Take it from a guy who has had a couple. It never works out well. The issue at hand is, one person in the "Friends with Benefits" situation, will develop feelings for the other. It always happens. You're not the exception, that people (or you) will become attached to the other. Then you have a whole mess on your hands.

Friends with Benefits is more work than it's worth.

You don't want one. It's cool for all of a week and then you realize that sex without attachment is meaningless.

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For me it kind of just happens when you've been friends with a fairly attractive girl for a while. Have a couple of drinks and bam! FB. If you haven't gone on any dates or done anything romantic and end up hooking up. The possibility of that girl becoming and FB is pretty high.

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also, i'm just curious, are you looking for one or just wondering about the logistics. I would advise against them but i can tell you that they seem to happen in transition years when one person is looking for a job, uncertain about their future and wants the perks of a relationship without a relationship.

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I actually JUST acquired one. Never had before. The way it worked was she is my exes best friend and we hooked up. We both agree that we can't date or let my ex know cause it would devastate her, so we just have some of the most amazing sex either of us have ever had.

by fucking a girl and calling her later.

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