[Discussion] Any advice for integrating a dog into an apartment already full of cats?

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My girlfriend and I are going to be moving in with her sister later this week, and I'm wondering what's the best way to get our dog and her cat's living together happily?

Our dog is a husky / lab mix who has a ridiculous amount of energy because we run him constantly. Her sister has two cats. One is "small and shy" and the other one is "fat and grumpy".

Things we have going for us

  1. The dog has lived in the town we're moving to before. So it should be nice for him to fall right back into his old stomping grounds. As such were not really anticipation to much moving anxiety or anything. Pretty much the first thing were gong to do when we get him into town is take him out on a hike through his favorite trails.
  2. While it's only a two bedroom apartment, there is a basement. So it shouldn't be to hard to create some separation if we need to. It's obviously not an ideal situation, because we would all feel bad locking him away like he's some monster, but it's better than him getting scratched because he's feeling his running addiction kicking in and he's starting to get antsy.
  3. Their parents have graciously offered to watch the dog for a few day's while we get situated. So it's not like we're going to be doing all the "moving stuff" and all of the "pet stuff" at the same time. They have even mentioned the possibility of doing "weekday / weekend type thing until they get used to each other", but to be honest we kind of consider that a "last option" because their parents live two hours away. We hope that if it all goes well that we will just be able to get them integrated right, especially if we have a few day's to prepare for it.

Any advice, anecdotes, or portents of doom would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

Posted Nov 2, 2018, 1:42 PM UTC

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PinealResonator•
  1. How strong is your dogs prey drive?

  2. Always give the cats a safe area the dog can't get to.

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Stringmaster94OP•

Not very strong. He's more curious than anything. He just kinda gets hyper, or he acts out when he gets bored. He's not the type to sit their killing his toys, he's more of the type to take his toys and hide them, and be a weirdo about them...if that makes sense.

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PinealResonator•

How about barking when you're not home?

You don't want to piss off the neighbors.

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shiplesp•

How dog-savvy are the cats? Cats can take a LONG time to adjust to changes in their living situation ... up to about a year, so be very patient with the process. Do not expect all to be peaceful and settled in a few months. This is a long-haul/big picture process.

Definitely keep them separated when you are not actively supervising. Even if they get along like gangbusters, there is a risk that any play can turn to predation if the arousal level gets too high. We get posts with an unfortunate regularity of dogs killing the family cat, even when they got along and grew up together ... so protect the cats!

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Stringmaster94OP•

I'm not completely sure, but I don't think they've ever lived with dogs at the very least. Last summer we had our dog over to her apartment and the cats mostly just growled at him and hid under the bed. So at least it's not like this is the first time these cats are going to be meeting this dog, but they definitely aren't used to living with them.

Apparently they don't get along great with each other either. The fat grumpy one seems to bully the small shy one apparently. So I'm hoping that our dog can maybe end up being the small shy ones friend, give him somebody to play with or something.

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