Movies, music etc. with elements or scenes of a BDSM nature?

Similar to the erotic literature thread, but this time I'm interested in instances of anything BDSM-related in other media.

I suppose films will be the major one - not porn, but any movie, mainstream or indie or whatever, that has something kinky that appealed to you. Could be a major theme, as in 'Secretary', or just a scene featuring bondage, rape, spanking etc. As long as it did something for you and might have a similar effect on others. Perhaps a TV show/episode, instead of a film. I'd be interested in your recommendations.

Music is a bit of an odd one, but I can't help thinking the recurrent 'ravaged lady' theme is one of the reasons I enjoy the Decemberists' folk-rock so much. I mean, just their latest concepty album includes 'The Abduction of Margaret' and a little while later 'Margaret in Captivity', at the hands of the bad guy the Rake who may or may not succeed in his quest to ruin her (it's not entirely clear). That Colin Meloy must have a sizeable sadistic streak. Any songs with a BDSM nature you lot would like to share?