I am looking for advise from exmo's or exJW's. My son came out as bi on thanksgiving. Now his JW Ex is refusing to let him see his son for Christmas.

She said it is against his religion. Except the parenting plan gives my son all holidays except thanksgiving. She already taught my grandson that his dad, uncle and grandfather's are part of satans army because they all served in the military. Is there anything he can do. She has money for an attorney but he doesn't.

Edited to add location: We are in Washington state