I guess I stumbled into dominance?

I'm entirely new to this (as in less than 3 days), so I sincerely and profusely apologize in advance if this is not the appropriate place for this post. My first priority is to be respectful to this community, so please let me know any ways I can do better at that.

So I met a girl online, and we started getting flirty. I told her to do something, and fast-forward a couple of days now I'm picking her clothes for the day and she's not allowed to masturbate until I make her. Never done this before in any capacity, and I'm honestly really enjoying it, at least with her. I'm kind of going with the flow, and I'm surprised how much stuff I can come up with, but I feel like we're a little restricted.

It's still very much an online flirtation, so we're not really doing any video chatting and I know she's using a fake profile pic (I am definitely not laboring under the assumption that Alexis Ren is wearing blue boxer panties today bc I told her to). I don't care about any of that, but a lot of ideas for rewards and punishments seem to go that direction when I've tried to find suggestions for a long-distance relationship of this nature. She's very very good and I really want to give her something special bc she went above and beyond for me today. She's done some voice recordings for me, but that's as personal as I'd like to get for now at least. So any ideas about what I could do for her, what she must do next time she breaks the rules, or any general advice at all would be extraordinarily appreciated. Thanks everyone!