Rape/ abuse and SJWs

So side note before I get into it: i have been raped when I was younger for a long period of time, sexually abused not that long ago, and have had problems with people making sexual comments to me (F20s)

Stop saying everything is rape or sexual abuse. Stop. If a person has sex with someone and later on wish it didn't happen: that's not rape. If someone accidentally brushes up against you at a party: that isn't rape.

Also just because someone says something to you once not knowing that would hurt your feelings doesn't mean that is abuse.

If someone is hitting a person and they fight back that doesn't mean that is abuse. I've seen so many women tell me that their men have hit them but when I saw the situation happen it was her hitting him in the face and him trying to push her away. Honey that means you are abusive not him.

Etc etc etc

Also people can and do lie about rape

But also to the people that get mad at others for coming forward super late saying "oh they must be lying because they didn't come forward about it sooner." That isn't true at all. I have yet to report or tell family about my situations but that doesn't make it automatically not true.