Feminism is affecting my marriage in the worst way possible. Please advice me.

I married around 5-9 years ago, and everything went nice and tidy for most of those years. But now, thanks to feminism, my husband is overly worried about unintentionally "raping" me, requiring a direct yes on my part every single time.

He knows I wouldn never falsely accuse him of raping me, and I know he would never rape me, but things have become a bit tense since I have to be constantly "consenting" to everything I already consented the time before that. And the time before that too.

So my question is, how can isolate my marriage from feminist insanity and get my husband back to his spontaneous self? I would rather say "no" a few times than having to say "yes" a thousand times. It kills the mood.