Think about it... when you’re mourning the death of someone you don’t get to go back to the way things were EVER.

You don’t get to hear their voice, see them, laugh w them, lie in bed or touch them ever again. It’s extremely difficult coming to terms with all of those things but you have to mourn, grieve to get past the pain. Some days will be great while others will be hard af! But you don’t get to go back. Breaking up with a Narcissistic must be treated like a death. The relationship is dead PERIOD. I find myself after time (almost 3 months) of no contact feeling like oh it wasn’t that bad. Now that I know who he really is I can handle having him in my life. Negative. No I can not. Just have to keeping telling myself that part of my life is dead forever.

Death is hard but we got this!