changing earlobe piercing for the first time?

i'm sooo nervous. i posted here awhile back and everyone said to wait at least 3 months. i thought "no way that's happening." well, it's officially been 3 months since i had them done and i'm still too nervous to change them, haha. tell me everything will be ok. :( the whole process has been nearly completely painless, aside from them getting caught once or twice on my clothing while changing, or just sleeping on one side for too long. i might just have to go back to my piercer and have them change them the first time just to get it over with and hopefully prove it's not as painful as i'm thinking it will be.