IWTL how to put order in my life and socialice

Hi guys , im a high school student who is in a middle of a crisis , my family talked to me that im really bad at making friends or contacts (cause they only know 2 por 3 friends of my childhood and is kind of hard to me make friends cause im not a party guy) but im not that silent guy who never talks either cause a lot of people in the college knows me but they are not really "friends" (we dont hang out together por something) and after that they are doing to kick me out of the house and dont gonna help me paying the college cause they are gonna help my sister instead , this is why i decided to get a job , stop messing around and start to make my life by my own , but idk where to start , i dont have any work experience and i dont know where or how find a job that can help me with the college and rent a room (i lived 2 hours from the college so this is kind of relaxing) and idk how to organize my time with the college , social life and job ,if anybody has pass throught this situation who can vive me some tips to graduate while working without diying in the try.