I (22/M) need some advice
Im not very good at socializing with people. However, yesterday, for the first time in my life. I saw a really cute girl sit down on a bench. So i summoned up the herculean courage to go and talk to her. I think she is about my age, i never asked We actually talked for almost an hour and she sent me some decently positive signals like laughing at things i say, smiling alot and engaging me in conversation. I even managed to get her phone number at the end of the encounter. It may not sound very groundbreaking but i was very proud of myself for taking the chance!
Naturally I am currently in a state of overthinking things. I sent her a text this morning saying that i enjoyed hanging out with her and i told her to have a good weekend and she reciprocated my text by saying the same about me.
I want to take her on a date but the holidays are a busy time for people. She lives in my town for the local university but her family is from upstate. I honestly have no idea how to chase after her right now. I dont want to squander my chances by having her think im too over eager.
I have honestly never officially asked a girl on a date in my life so this is very new to me. Haha im done being lonely
Any input that can be provided would be immensely appreciated
Posted Dec 16, 2018, 11:39 PM UTC