I don't know what to do anymore

So I've been dating this guy for about 9 months now and I really like him but we've gotten quite distant from each other and don't talk as much anymore. Because of this I kinda started to like another guy that i know i have no chance with. It's wierd because I can see myself in different situation with either one of them. Not only this but every one in my year/grade is asking us if we've kissed or anything like that, which we haven't because he didn't want to and what kinda gf would I be if I forced him to do it. Now everyone is calling him fridged which I hate and telling us to break up. Since all of this has happened I don't know what to do to break up with him or not. I do like him and want to make this work but I'm not sure anymore. Any advice?