Triss and yeniffer.

So I thought I'd choose triss no brainer.. that is until I just finished the djinns quest and her feelings still haven't changed.. shit I don't have any idea who to choose now.. Shit I've never played a game before that totally makes me feel like the character I'm playing before.. I don't want any spoilers I just wanted to say this game has taken me completely by surprise. I love it so far...