[M4F] looking for mostly online (or kik) but still open to irl, in NYC/nassau. Disclaimer:I'm a trans man

Politically I'm an anarchist/communist, so if that's a deal breaker then there's no point.

I'm a math major in college.

I'm very much into orgasm control. Without anyone giving me directions I masturbate 5 times a day minimum lol. I'd want someone to control how often I orgasm and force me to orgasm when they tell me too. Although testosterone injections do make me very horny and I'm not sure if I could handle going a long stretch of time without cumming.

I like feeling like I'm being taken care of, plenty of "good boy"s and "I'm proud of you"s.

I want to try having someone else control what I get off to. As in have someone send me porn and erotica and only let me use that for sexual stimulation. I enjoy watching forced and ruined orgasms, or orgasm denials as well. My tastes in written erotica are more varied.

Not into being forcibly feminized or being called she/her.

Hard limits are scat, mouth to mouth kissing, degradation (although I kinda hate the idea of limits bc I'd much rather opt in than opt out so that there's less of a gray area, just lmk if there's anything extra you're interested in)

Don't really get foot fetishes either but they're not a limit

Some stuff I'm into off the top of my head that could probably only work irl: spanking, being made to wear dresses, being tied up, giving oral sex, being petted, having my hair yanked, sometimes breathplay,

Feel free to ask if you need clarification or have any questions