I’m confused about the new excuses women are using “bad vibes” “we did not connect “

Is this the new red flag where if you go off the expected conversation script, you are deemed unworthy to date?

With internet dating are women told to be flag finders to get through the many matches?

Are women really looking for a connection on the first date? That seems illogical.

Posted Jan 1, 2019, 1:37 PM UTC

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Marque01•

Don't go on dates. They're looking for validation that their shit doesn't stink. Simple as that. Don't be a pawn to their ego games. They're not there to date or fuck. They're there to get attention, validation, and a free meal. Nothing more.

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Astral-Projector•

Who cares? Stay away from women.

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Sir_manalot•

Men are to stupid to do that silly.

We need to get fucked over a few 1000 more times first.

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DocZTheRockstar•

A "connection" for a women has mostly nothing to do with similar interests. Yeah, both can be interested in the same things, but unless he has looks, money, or status, there is no love connection. She's got to lust after him to actually be in love with him.

Women love playing around with the word love and connection. They are like children lol.

Say she has had a guy friend for a while. 2 years in the friendzone. They confess their feelings. She now "loves" him. However, ever since they were friends she's been riding other dicks. She's never had sex with him and goes extra miles for her other love interests. Those other love interests have either looks, money, status, or maybe are just better in her eyes. All this time, her friend is the one who had a real connection with her through similar interest, however she never lusted after him therefore doesn't love him in the same way. She loves him "like a brother" and she doesn't want or feel like having sex with him. She keeps him as her plan B or C. About time he gets her, there is all kinds of DNA in her used up vagina. NEVER be that guy.

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Gibits•

When my kids say they love me I know they mean it. When a girl says that to me I roll my eyes. So please don’t insults kids. They don’t deserve it yet.

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ManyRoadLessTraveledOP•

Thanks. Makes sense. I have money, looks, fit, told I’m total package.... except I get the “but”.

My buddies tell my 5 8 is the issue.

Why won’t society or religion address the female dating deficiencies?

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furiousaxeman•

You aren't the issue... the system is...

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Gibits•

I had this happen to me recently. I’m glad it did because it would ended poorly for me. We just “didn’t connect” which is code for “you’re not perfect and I demand perfection in my mates even though I’m hardly flawless”

This girl I went on two dates with basically friend zoned me. Told me she just didn’t find me physically attractive. She was in a 8 year long relationship with some muscle bound guy but dumped him because “he stopped trying” (AKA he wasn’t making as much money as she was). Which is strange since she’s financially independent on her own, that guy could’ve been a house husband no problem. She went on dates with me because I am making good money but being of slim build did not check the right boxes for her. It did check the boxes for her income bracket though unlike her ex. Which is why she went out with me in first place. Hypergamy at its finest.

I’m actually glad she did that so as not to waste my time. Plus she always acted like she was doing me a favor just going out with me. She’s 32 and single, and likely just destroyed her chances with her long time ex when there was no logical reason to. But she thinks she’s the prize? Words cannot describe.... hence codes.

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furiousaxeman•

32 and single bullet dodged.

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Gibits•

After hearing her talk about her ex I honestly felt bad for him. Getting dropped like a bad habit after 8 years (he even proposed to her) because he wasn’t living up to her pointless standards.

You’re right I dodged a bullet on that one.

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ManyRoadLessTraveledOP•

They all through social media become the prize.

I approach women as my equal. Then they proceed to find reasons they are better, can do better than us. They have terrible priorities. I try to stick around just long enough to see I’m actually the better one.

Is that bad?

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LazyMunchkin•

You’d have to be a fucking idiot to go on dates with women these days. Its bad vibes this its bad vibes that...no matter how much of a decent human being you are these cunts will always find shit to complain about just have some self respect and don’t feed the whores.

Edit - Instead stay at home work on yourself, maybe focus on a hobby...learn some new skill or even give all that love to a pet. Just don’t date these entitled fucking cunts. Dont even give them the slightest of your attention.

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Trail_of_Jeers•

Women know in seconds if they want to bang you, and if they will come crawling or you are simp.

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Yashugan00•

ATM cannot dispense cash right now. out of order. CONNECTION lost.

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casra888•

"He wasnt giving me his money!!! Waaaaaaahhhhhh!!!!"

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