Bottoming positions

Advice

Hey y’all.

So I’m 31 and fairly new to bottoming. Been bottoming a lot lately for a fwb and really enjoy, but notice I’m in pain when trying out certain positions. Missionary and me riding him don’t hurt at all and are super pleasurable, but on my side or anything else tends to be uncomfortable/painful. Sucks because I can see my tops disappointment when these positions don’t work out. Any tips to ease the discomfort, or is this just the way I’m built ?

Posted Jan 13, 2019, 11:25 AM UTC

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AquamanBWonderful•

Morethan likely its the way HE'S built. What shape is his cock? Does it have a curve? It may be stimulating the prostate too intensely.

Only bit of advice i can give is to take it really slow. Slow movements to begin with. Once you become more accustomed to the position, it wont be a problem.

Dont worry about his reaction. You have to put your first in this instance. If you dont, you could end up really hurting yourself. He will just have to put up with that

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empaththisOP•

About 6 inches not too thick. Not curved. Maybe I just have to go slower try out different body mechanics. Thanks for the sound advice mate

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Humm2k5•

My FWB could only do missionary, everything else hurt too much and he didn’t enjoy it. The sex was still good, though. When he did me, I could do any position and it didn’t bother me that he couldn’t.

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