so many people on that sub say they’ve tried everything, but they haven’t.
instead of ending the relationship, they find gratification somewhere else. i’m sorry that you’re going through this, but cheating is not okay. end it. if you can’t come to an agreement for an open relationship, see yourself out. don’t cheat.
Posted Jan 19, 2019, 7:47 PM UTC
Agreed. Haven't frequented that sub but I've seen it on other subs. Though hopefully they discourage it.
Agree
You're right, but I imagine that doing it the right way is easier said than done. Some people do, many do not.
no, definitely. but you wouldn’t hurt someone you love like that. you don’t love them like you think you do.
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What if they cheat without being found out
😟 oh dear
Its not very hard, relationship goes on like normal and the need for sex is satisfied, win win
If your okay with living a lie and have zero respect for your partner. However in that case all I can do is pitty your partner and pray they can meet someone who gives a shit about them
Until your partner finds out and shoots you and your lover dead like you deserve. Then it's an even bigger win.
I was waiting for this opinion to at least present an unpopular one.
Seems I've got u in your feelings
you’re okay w lying to your partner?
People have needs.
yeah, and one of those needs is to know they have a loyal partner
That's like expecting a dog to be loyal even though you neglect them, don't feed them or take them for walks. They are going to get hungry and run off searching for food. That doesn't make them disloyal.
Except you won't die if you have to masturbate
Forcing your partner to masturbate for the rest of their life if they want to stay with you is just as bad.
comparing food to sex is laughable. is it important? sure! will you die if you don’t have it? no!
It's a primal biological urge. Having no sex life is not healthy.
lol nah that's like a dog that whines all day, degrades you, uses up most of your resources and then expects you to scratch it for a half hour in a certain way that disgusts you to the point of wanting to throw up because the dog is such a disgusting ungrateful fat worthless bitch you can't bring yourself to... well you know.
Wow. What horrible relationships have you been in?
A weak excuse for weak people to justify degenerate behavior.
Were are programmed to want to fuck. If you are trapped in a relationship that denies you that then you have no obligation to be trapped in a sexless life. The real degenerate behavior is denying sex to your spouse but also demanding that they not have sex with anyone else either. That is extreme selfishness and manipulative. At that point you've just trapped people in a shitty life.
If you're in a sexless relationship, that is your obligation to go without sex, if you want sex, leave the relationship, there is no "trapped". Every worthless hedonistic degenerate makes up excuses to justify their crimes, none of them mean a thing.
Some people are trapped. Leaving isn't that easy. For some men leaving means losing access to their children. They have a choice to either live a sexless life or live without their kids. It's cruel to put your spouse in a situation like that. A spouse that denies sex to their partner should have no rights in a divorce.
That subreddit is fantasy, just larpers writing fiction
hope so