Ok, so I try to help one of us
My sister is my best friend (I have other, male friends) and we are pretty close. She told me she likes this guy who is her coworker. He is kinda ugly, smokes a lot and other guys bash on him on a regular for not having a girlfriend. My sister is a 8/10, everybody likes her, but she is just not that sociable, she likes reading, painting, has few friends. She told me she likes this guy and I can see that he likes her 2 (they work at a sport betting agency so im there all' the time) but She is used not taking the first step because She is a attractive girl so she doesn't need to. I just think he doesn't have the balls to do something and that is kind of frustrating because I think they would be a great couple. What should I do?
Posted Feb 15, 2019, 7:51 PM UTC
Tell him she likes him, and that she's gonna say yes if you ask her.
He doesn't have the balls because he's scared of rejection, but if he knows there won't be any, he'll do it
Yeah, but my sister would never forgive me for doing something like that. What if he tells her? Im cool with the dude but we are not homies or anything like that. They work togheter everyday, if things get messed up It will be my fault, and I can't afford that.
bro u said he is ugly and gets bashed on. he is most definitely an incel. you have the opportunity to help him ascend, and you have to do it. straight up just tell him she likes him, you can literally change this dudes life. who cares if she gets mad if she finds out, if it turns out to be a good relationship im sure she'll get over whatever temporary anger she feels towards you. DO IT
Don't be selfish and help him out dude. Just tell him your sister like him.
It's not that simple, boios. It's easy to find the right thing to do when there are no real life consequences for you. When you have to betray the trust a close family member is giving to you, there is another thing. Y'all talking like you discovered hot water