How can I (27f) stop being attracted to emotionally unavailable men?

Idk why, but every guy I’ve ever been in a relationship with or has a fwb arrangement with has been heartless and unempathetic. I’ve always chose guys who cheated on me or dumped me & chose another girl with no remorse. I’m tired of getting played. Of course these guys all told me how beautiful I was or were really nice initially. & every single time, they just use me. I notice the trend though: I’m only attracted to men who don’t really want me. I’m never into the guys who are actually into me. So I know it’s partially self inflicted. Idk what to do and I feel hopeless. Help?