Mom threw away all of my underwear in her fit of rage, don't know what to do.

My step-mom only buys me over-sized clothing. She bought me underwear that’s 5 sizes too big, and they reach up to my breasts, and they’re tight on the crotch. She recently discovered that i barely wore them, because they make me feel uncomfortable.

She got mad at me for going through her pills. I was looking for painkillers for my killer period cramps, which are borderline crippling. (It’s been three years of that, still need to my first gyno appointment.) Anyway, she was clearly mad at me for going through her stuff. I only go through her stuff when i need to, and find stuff of mine, or things that aren’t really owned by anyone specifically. (pads, disposable razors, ibuprofen, etc.)

She came into my room, yelling, accusing me of taking all kinds of pills that I’ve never heard of. It got to the point where she was digging in my drawers and taking everything out, slapping and arguing with my dad, even threatening a divorce. I was shaking and crying, and my dad pointed it out. She just said “she’s faking it, as per usual.” I have never fake cried in my entire life. As a matter of fact, she’s the only one who I’ve ever seen fake cry.

I Heard their prolonged argument from my bedroom, something about her having dirt on me if they do get divorced. That part made me even more scared.

I’m 16, not allowed to get a job yet. My step mom explicitly said that when I do, I’m not allowed to spend any of it. I have to work for a year before I can learn how to drive according to her, and the money is for me to buy a used car. So I can’t really replace anything at the moment.