Does anyone know what happened to /r/LetterstoJNMIL?
I went to look for it, and keep being told it’s « private, » or I « don’t have access. » Thanks.
Posted Apr 29, 2019, 9:43 AM UTC
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I went to look for it, and keep being told it’s « private, » or I « don’t have access. » Thanks.
Posted Apr 29, 2019, 9:43 AM UTC
I know you posted this over a week ago and I was wondering the same thing today. So when I did a Google search didn't come up with much except your question and a kinda unorganized blog post.
But from that blog and some posts on some other subs as well as the new (it's been up about a month) stickied post on r/justnomil it looks like they nuked it due to a lot of accusations of made up stories on r/justnomil. There have been a few that I've wondered about myself as being fiction and sure enough one of those people admitted to fabricating the entire story (did you read the one that the mil had the nickname initials VJS?).
Anyway it sucks that they took that sub away because a lot of people used it for support and advice because there weren't as many restrictions to posting as there is over at r/justnomil.
Yep. Well, it actually seems like the mods got angry and nuked it. They were being accused of racism and bad modding, and censorship.
There were like minimum two posts a day asking for their accountability by the time I last checked in.
The racism was supposedly in Devil Dadi’s posts. Which after a few members explained, I realized were at the very least really tonedeaf.
Also, the mods kept promising town halls every week, then what....DELETED the subreddit? That’s the only place I got support for my awful MIL.
So yeah.
Confusing.
Well there's still justnomil and justnofamily and justnoso!!
The racism from the DD stories was outrageous!! But it wasn't obvious unless you know how Indian culture works but some stuff was blatant!
I saw a ton of posts talking about the censorship too!
I was banned from JustnoMIL and JustNOfam for baiting Libida. Not a proud moment, but I apologized to her immediately after. Every time I try to talk to the mods they mock and humiliate me. So yeah. That was the only sub I could safely rely on.
Oh well!
Thanks for your reply!!
Oh geez, I'm so sorry. That sub is always full of so much drama. They need to change and fix a lot of things to make it better.
Have a great night!