Everytime i see a criticism start with "this is the problem with feminism" in here and it turns out the person was just expecting self serving to lash out at women while expecting women to hold their hand on that.
they were honestly expecting someone to become their own enemy just for their approval and they even start out lording their disapproval in here like that's something that should be important to every woman.
It's sexist and manipulative cuz it's not listening. It's not hearing. the language itself uses a peer approval to pressure women into doing shit over something that shouldn't be the important thing in their life: Other people's approval.
Yeah, I kept replying to this guy who was basically saying he would be an ally, on some conditions that weren’t currently being met. Ok, don’t need you then. He kept trying to convince me that women somehow do need him. We really don’t need someone who conditionalizes whether women are equals. No thaaaaanks, byeee! It’s mostly guys wanting us to just ask beg more politely for basic rights.
Everytime i see a criticism start with "this is the problem with feminism" in here and it turns out the person was just expecting self serving to lash out at women while expecting women to hold their hand on that.
they were honestly expecting someone to become their own enemy just for their approval and they even start out lording their disapproval in here like that's something that should be important to every woman.
It's sexist and manipulative cuz it's not listening. It's not hearing. the language itself uses a peer approval to pressure women into doing shit over something that shouldn't be the important thing in their life: Other people's approval.
Yeah, I kept replying to this guy who was basically saying he would be an ally, on some conditions that weren’t currently being met. Ok, don’t need you then. He kept trying to convince me that women somehow do need him. We really don’t need someone who conditionalizes whether women are equals. No thaaaaanks, byeee! It’s mostly guys wanting us to just
askbeg more politely for basic rights.Ya Good people do not require Good deeds sold to them.
As i said to a woman pulling the same shit your guy was:
'Tone policing' is a bullshit argument.
If you are going to do the wrong thing, tone didn't make you do it. You did the wrong thing cuz you just really wanted to.