To brigaders. You've permanently harmed some of your own with this brigade
This sub and incel subs are heavily used by people in their late 20s and 30s. Our philosophy is largely defeatist because we have already lost. This is a terrible thing to expose impressionable kids to.
Giving up is logical if you've been struggling for decades. Not when you're just starting your conscious free lives.
I guarantee you we'll end up with an influx of young ethnics who came here to ridicule us and then realized they identify with everything posted here. It's how all subs of this type get their members.
Tbh I'm more annoyed that we'll have to be lecturing young idiots for months after this.
To ethnics, this sub is not here to help you. It's here for the truth. There are things you can do to help yourself, but they're not here, so stay off this sub. Go to redpill spaces instead. Maximize what you can (height, facial bone structure, etc) before it's too late.
Posted May 26, 2019, 2:28 AM UTC
21 year old here. I come from a mixed race family, and was raised to be proud of my ethnicity and culture. Sometimes, my race means I get the short end of the stick socially (and yeah, it fucking sucks). But in the end, there are those who make do with what they have, and those that make excuses. My dad came from a literal jungle village and had to deal with racist family tensions before and after he married. He sacrificed a lot to get our family to this point, and I respect him immensely.
I’m attending college and managed to find a wonderful girl for myself. Trust me, it hasn’t been the smoothest of rides (and my culture was a bit of an obstacle for her at times) but we didn’t make our race the focus of our romance. I’m sure it’s important to some of you. Personally, I tend not to associate with people who obsess with race.
You called it a defeatist mentality. You’re obviously completely aware of your situation, and yet you use race as a reason to not do anything about it. I get the struggle is there, and other people have it easier than you. But you’re not alone.
Whatever is holding you back romantically is probably not your ethnicity. There are millions of examples of the antithesis of this sub in real life but if you don’t care about that then at least swallow that final truth. I get that your mind is already set, so I hope you find happiness in whatever you do regardless man.
It's not racial obsession that we're even really talking about. That's horrible, but also a small minority of people. We're talking about subtle and not so subtle societal preferences.
It's demonstrable whites have an overwhelmingly easier time with nearly everything than ethnics.
Nobody has claimed that race is the only thing holding people back. It just adds a multiplier of difficulty.
There are similarly people frustrated with the height multiplier, dark skin multiplier, ugliness multiplier etc.
If your only problem is your race, you're lucky, and western society's "egalitarianism" means you'll be fine in a lot of aspects.
Now consider me. I suffer from being a dark skinned indian who's conventionally ugly and has extensive facial scarring. Each of these things makes things considerably more difficult.
Based on probability, because of these multipliers, at some point for a lot of people things become too difficult. Especially when it comes to dating. It is legitimately impossible for some men to date purely because they have too many undesirable unchangeable physical traits.
For those people who've been struggling for 30+ years, why is it that they shouldn't relax and finally complain every now and then?
Why are you so determined to deprive people who already have difficult lives of their spaces to cope?
Fair answer, and lots of information about you and your mentality that I didn’t understand before.
First, I don’t have any experience or wisdom I can share regarding your physical appearance. I’m sorry. It sounds like you have come to terms with what you look like. I hope you find someone who can see you and love you for who you are (if that’s something you still want).
Second, dude complain all you want. Far be it from me to deprive you or anybody else. I was even complaining a bit in my first comment. It’s not fair! We both know that at least from a social level there are barriers to overcome that other people just wouldn’t understand. I know we’re not going to agree on what to do about it, I was mainly fed up with the negativity of this sub. This place exists to let hopelessness fester. And as far as coping goes, that’s not emotionally healthy. But if that’s what you’re here for, then by all means complain.
I didn't ask for wisdom from you lol no worries.
Why not just not browse the sub when it's clearly not for you? Why try to ruin it for everyone else?
Let me tell you what's not emotionally healthy. Telling ugly deformed short racially disadvantaged people that their problems are because they're bad people instead of considering that it's society at fault.
You end up putting people on this hamster wheel where they see people doing all the opposite of what society says will work succeed and ending up hurt and confused when nothing works for them. It's depressing and messes you up mentally.
Acceptance of your disadvantages once you've confirmed they're your actual problems is helpful because it gives you the confidence that you're not a shitty person like people have been saying.
In any case, this sub isn't about hopelessness. It's mostly just pointing out racism. People get a bit hopeless, and that's a natural part of venting frustration.
I know better than to want what I can't have; not that that's going to keep me from trying.