35 M4R / M4RR Cleveland - Poly and looking

36* year old nerdy/geeky professional in Cleveland looking for another sexy friend. I'm looking to date and more. I am married but we are poly and date separately. My wife is someone you will eventually meet regardless of your interest in her, and dating as a couple isn't out of the question, but it is not likely or expected.

About me: 6'1", chubby or 'dad bod' body type. I'm pretty easy to get along with, but if we can talk about anything geeky, nerdy, or technical, you'll probably have my ear. Board games are definitely an option for a first 'date'. For dating I'm definitely looking to actually get to know each other before jumping into bed, not just hookups or 'casual' FWB, but real friendships, hopefully with sexual benefits.

BDSM/Kink friendly, I'm definitely on the submissive side, but that doesn't need to be a big part of all of my relationships. And I am versatile, I'm more into making sure everyone in bed enjoys themselves than being a 'bottom' specifically.

What I'm looking for: I'm interested in all genders, between 25-45 ideally, but personality matters more than age or looks. Ideally I'd like to find a non-smoking friend or a couple with a guy who likes guys, but I'm also not going to ignore someone cool that doesn't fit that mold.