What do tulpas think of their hosts?

I,, know it's probably not great, but I've been stressed over this as we can't totally be sure of who the host is, and,, we try really hard to be equal, but,, isn't being a tulpa unequal by nature? The host can abbandon you at any point, and then you die from lack of attention, which sounds terrifying, especially as someone who enjoys time to myself. I just,, wanted to know what tulpas think of this. -t (i'll be using "-t" as my identifyer, just because dont wanna share mine or any of my system's names just to keep privacy, i,, hope you can understand)