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Grapedd

Do women enjoy nudes?

Hello internet, I am a (24M) and I have been told conflicting information for awhile now. I've been with my wife for 7 years now. We met when I was 17 and she was 16. For the first 2 years we lived 100 miles apart, and we sent each other nudes probably once every other month or so. I would ask her for nudes and then she would ask me for nudes etc. After the first 2 years we stopped sending nudes because we lived together and saw each other every day. Well 6 months ago I had to go on my first business trip to Hong Kong (I live in the US) for a month. After being there for a week I asked my wife for a topless pic and she told me that we are too old for nude photos and also that women don't like pics of guys showing their dicks and they only ever ask for them because they feel obligated.

Is this true? I mean I get that some guys just send random dick pics and no one ever wants that shit, but do ladies genuinely enjoy seeing their pics of their man naked or naw?

Posted Jul 8, 2019, 5:24 PM UTC

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StonerTigerMom•

Um no, but they’re definitely different. I like suggestive pics but not so much nudes. It’s sad she thinks she’s too old for them and is for some reason telling you she never really wanted them in the first place.

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privatesadface•

I personally love sending/receiving nudes even random ones. Makes me feel somewhat good that they were thinking of me when their dick is hard

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Draughtsorcheckers•

Still love a nude off the better half 4 years in, don't think I'll ever stop enjoying seeing that dick.

Too old? She's around 23, she's in her prime!

Got to respect her feelings and you will always get conflicting views through preference.

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SweetGlasgowSmile•

The reason you've been getting conflicting information is because every woman is different. So your wife doesn't like receiving nudes. Ok that's one woman. I'm sure lots of women would agree with her. Plenty of other women do like receiving them. A lot of women, from what I've heard myself, prefer suggestive photos to full on nudity (a bulge in tight boxer shorts for instance). As with most things it varies very much from person to person.

The only thing I'd have to fully disagree on is the "too old" thing. You're never too old to enjoy your partner's body, in whatever way you choose to do so.

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WhereYouGoinSnek•

I only like a dick pic, when the rest of the guy is also visible and the rest of the guy is in an amazing shape. In other cases, no, I don't want them, boyfriend or not.

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neroday•

If you are already in a relationship that the other person acknowledges as sexual, and are mutually attracted to each other, a dickprint is better than a dick pic. The suggestion of nudity in a sensual image is even better than sending the nudity itself.

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usemedaddy_•

Women don’t like random dick pics from fuck boys.

I love when my boyfriend sends me random nudes. And even nudes that involve other partners. Depending on the partner.

And I like receiving them when I ask for them from other partners, but not randomly.

It’s something you should talk to your partner(s) about.

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moonstonedollyx•

I love getting nudes from someone I have interest in. It's the random guys that just send dick pics out of nowhere that piss us off.

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hauntsVII•

It very much depends on the woman and for me personally, it even depends on the relationship. If it's inherently not a part of my partner's personality, then I don't want them making themselves uncomfortable for it, for example. My current partner is quite bold and from him, it's really sexy to me.

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billie-lane•

I think it definitely depends on the woman. I don’t just like nudes, I have gotten myself off multiple times from men sending me videos of them jacking off and cumming. Something about the visual and noise combo just sends me through the roof. So I like nudes as a teaser for that, but I also love how a dick looks. I’d say it’s up to the individual. If she doesn’t like them, it probably has nothing to do with you specifically and just a personal preference for her.

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I'm probably older than a great percentage of redditors, and of course its anecdotal, but the older I get, the more I want the nudes. I've been married 20+ years, and it has started taking me a bit longer to get worked up. Texts of his d works great.

Does she have any new feelings on her ability to keep her pics safe? Has she been down on her bod lately?

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rookieriter•

A beautiful naked guy - sure! Just a dick pic?

ew

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whatthefuckdude666•

Everyone is different

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psychensomniac•

Female here. I think that nudes are awesome, and I thought that dick pics were the greatest thing since sliced bread until I started sending some back and forth with an online fwb. One was good, but most were actually a turn off and boring because there was absolutely no regards for aesthetics. Now I know that I love dick pics and nudes from my Partner. He goes the distance. Good lighting, lots of cum, great angles, and always doing something super sexy with the hands (I love male hands). Something primal. Lesson learned, but I still look at most pictures on the cock image subreddits that I'm subscribed to, so...

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spazzitgoes•

Nope. Nudes for life please! 🥳🥳🥳

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puppypuppyl0v3•

I think it varies person to person tbh. Like me personally, eh, male nudes don't do much for me. Like if it's someone I love and am with I can appreciate their beauty and that I love them but I'm not sexually stimulated much at all. I know for me, and I thought I've read somewhere, a lot of women aren't too visual but get stimulated in other ways. Like a solid sext, sexting roleplay, or naughty fanfic gets me going wayyy more than a nude.

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bunny_tears•

Yea

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Zballer49•

It really depend on the right lighting.From personal experience they enjoy when it’s in a costume or when you super glue googly eyes on it. Just make sure you put the eye or eyes in the right spot!!

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Terror_of_Knowing•

While I do think it depends on the person’s preference I am a woman that enjoys getting nudes from men and occasionally women. It’s sometimes not just about the genitals but appreciating an attractive body in general. Sometimes a nude can be just the torso and a hint of male v line or chest and armpit combo or a naked body profile, it doesn’t always have to be full screen wang shot in your face. Maybe experiment with different poses, and maybe talk to her about it. I think society tells women they aren’t stimulated visually so they believe it. Also a nude from someone who feels confident in their body just is sexy.

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