Anyone else get tired of patronizing "advice"?

I'm sure we've all heard it before in one form or another. The "advice" people give you, by saying that they're short, ugly, broke, etc. and have had relationships so it must be possible for everyone! Personally I find blind optimism just as annoying as blind pessimism, and most normal people like to assume the worst about people like us anyway.

According to many regular people confidence is literal magic that solves all of your problems, and if you can't get a relationship it's because you treat women like sexual objects or aren't trying hard. Never mind the guys who blatantly talk about and treat women like sex objects that can attract them, since they aren't in the line of fire for those looking to punch down...