Primal Predator Daddy seeking something extra

I'm a married, closeted (even to my wife) bisexual dom. I have only ever acted out my BDSM tastes online, and I don't really plan to change that. I'm not looking to meet anyone local. I know some people might not consider chatting over reddit cheating, but I do, and I'm ashamed of it, but I also can't really explore this side of my sexuality with my wife- she's very turned off by it.

Judge me if you like, I won't blame you.

I'm looking for a submissive that would be interested in what I bring to the table. I'm a 6' 205 white guy getting back into shape. I have tattoos, short dirty strawberry blonde hair, and glasses. For what it's worth, I'm told I'm quite handsome.

I'm a very affectionate dominant. I don't want to be called "Sir," or "Master," because I feel these titles feel impersonal. I have discovered I really enjoy being called "Daddy," though. Aftercare is really important to me, and so is communication, because I am honestly terrified of doing something or saying something that would be a turn-off to my partner or upset them.

I'm very aggressive and primal. I want to be with someone who not only likes to let go of control, but wants to be taken control of- physically. Women that enjoy con-non-con are a huge bonus here- I enjoy a woman I can completely let myself go with, without concern of upsetting her. I enjoy rough, hard, sex, to the point that it's almost rape (and I'll sometimes call it this). I enjoy growling, grunting, biting, hair-pulling, choking, and when I climax I even have a tendency to let out a very loud groan that can be mistaken for a roar. I love looking my submissive in the eye and telling her in a growl how much she belongs to me while I am thrusting into her.

This is a stark contrast to the other side of me, which is very caring, affectionate, and loving. I am a very generous, kind individual, even if sometimes I can be cynical and blunt.

I really enjoy a woman with curves. I like a woman with dark features too. Neither of these are must-have, however. I love when a woman talks dirty. And I seem to have a strong fetish for anal sex. Strong, independent women with the ability to handle their own affairs are a huge turn-on- I don't do the 24/7 dynamic where I expect to control your life and structure. Intelligence, a sense of humor, and open mind and the ability to engage in a meaningful conversation are must-haves as well.

I'm not looking for someone to meet up with in real life (but that's not off the table), and I'm not looking to be someone's everything. I want someone who is perfectly happy with an intimate sexual internet relationship that I can actually develop some kind of bond with.

Any questions, please ask. Thank you for your time and consideration.