Are orbitters literally the norm now

I live near a university campus... So the few times i go out I ALWAYS see a group of normie males with one or two girls. like this is the norm I see, there's always a shitload of normies all orbitting one or two beckies and they're all decked in clown Adidas and sportswear (JFL at skinnyfat/gymcel manlets/normies trying to larp as athletes) and h&m shit with soy cuts trying to impress mlady but obviously they aren't getting any under the laws of the blackpill

I really feel like orbitters are the norm now. And if you try to say that's kind of wack/gay or whatever they'll just deflect with about muh she's chill and cool, I'm not an incel who only cares about sex blablabla. It's delusional cope and truly pathetic to witness. Why even partake in such degrading shit willingly I don't understand