Why so much hate for brats?
So a topic I'm genuinely interested in and I thought I would reach out to the community.
First, many apologies if I sound judgmental. I'm not and am really seeking opinions so I can better understand the community. In my opinion we all like what we like and there are very few ways to participate in the true tenants of BDSM wrong.
I see on many boards here that a ton of people hate bratty subs and I don't get that. I'm not saying you're wrong I just want to understand the thinking.
My sub is mostly submissive with a little bit of brat and just a dash of little thrown in and I love that...
But...
I find that I want her to be more bratty as it gives me an actual reason to punish her. The thought of that turns me on way more than funishments do. I even find myself putting her in positions that encourage her to be more bratty and am disappointed when she doesn't brat.
I find when she instantly submits that it's satisfying but that it's not nearly as satisfying or erotic as if she initially reuses and I get to "make" her do it (of course everything I would do would have to be completely consentual).
That feels, to me, much more dominant.
So for those of you that hate brattiness or just straight out love a purely submissive sub, what is it about that that just revs your motor? What about brattiness just turns you off?
Posted Aug 12, 2019, 12:01 PM UTC