I'm tired of being sexualized for literally everything I do.
The modern woman's experience is first we're sexualized, and then we're not believed, and then we're gaslighted, and then we're sexualized again. Then we don't speak out because we remember what happened last time.
No matter what women do, it's considered sexual to some guys.
Be short? Be tall? Be big? Be thin? Be super thin? Eat a lot? Eat little? Be clumsy? Be skilled? Be smart? Be not so smart? Be stereotypically girly? Be stereotypically boyish? Have a high voice? Have a low voice?
It's all sexualized. It's all some guy's fetish.
Even our private bodily functions are sexualized. If we dress in cute clothes it is sexualized, but if we dress like nuns that's sexualized too. If we look 13 that's sexualized, but if we look middle-aged that's sexualized too. From head to toes, every part of our body is some guy's fetish. Every way we act, whether it be strong or meek, is "hot" to some dude somewhere.
I'm sorry for this being so ranty but it just takes the energy out of me.
Edit: downvoted within 5 seconds of this being posted. Literally impossible to read the whole post in that time, but some incel got to it quickly.
Posted Oct 4, 2019, 9:34 AM UTC · edited