My g/f and I made a discovery last night. Normally she and I are at odds, mainly because she's over-analyzes an innocent situation, adds information that's only in her own mind, goes off on a tangent, and then proceeds to focus on that for the duration of the battle. This is extremely frustrating for me, as I try to stick to the facts, focus on, and clearly interpret things that people say to me. (It's a big part of my job.)
When she does a one-hit with me, she's able the closely follow a thought process and we communicate 100x better.
There has to be some medical explanation for this. I'd love to understand it, because it could significantly improve our relationship.
My g/f and I made a discovery last night. Normally she and I are at odds, mainly because she's over-analyzes an innocent situation, adds information that's only in her own mind, goes off on a tangent, and then proceeds to focus on that for the duration of the battle. This is extremely frustrating for me, as I try to stick to the facts, focus on, and clearly interpret things that people say to me. (It's a big part of my job.)
When she does a one-hit with me, she's able the closely follow a thought process and we communicate 100x better.
There has to be some medical explanation for this. I'd love to understand it, because it could significantly improve our relationship.
TLDR: Guy has girlfriend who doesn't listen, gets her stoned and manages to shut her up.