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MetaMetaSinMan

I got rejected today.

I am of the firm belief that beauty is objective.

If a woman finds a guy average looking, all women will find him average looking.

There is an exception... well, not really an exception per se. I don't know what to call it. But this only applies within a woman's race. For example, a white guy may be ugly to white women, but attractive to asian women. This is not a cultural thing. Even western asian women who are as american as apple pie will judge a white guy's looks far more favourably.

Anyway, I am a white guy, and today I was rejected by a white woman I met at a bar, who I had been talking to for a week and made clear from the start that I was interested in her. The rejection has made me feel bad, because it means: you are objectively unattractive.

It sucks. I kind of made this thread on a whim, just typing to see what would come out of my mind. And yeah, I'm fully realizing it now, that I'm objectively unattractive and it really sucks.

I want to take something beneficial away from this. I've looksmaxed to the best of my ability over the past 2 years, and it's gotten me nowhere. So I give up when it comes to grooming. I'm going to save a lot of money on grooming products and grow out my hair and beard. Who knows, some women might actually like that beastly, wild, hobo look (doubt it but lol if they do; that'd be ironic).

Posted Nov 2, 2019, 1:41 PM UTC

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ImBackBitch926•

I believe that too,for women while men will lower their standards. Like I find myself being more attracted to fat women. Probably bc I know there is no way a skinny pretty girl would talk to me.

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Pm_me_socks_at_night•

For attractiveness purposes while there is a lot of agreement, there is also a lot of variance on a person to person basics. For example, if asked everyone in your town, the average might be a 4 but some women would rate you a 6 or 7 while others at a 2 or 1.

This has been shown in studies where students where asked to rate who is the most attractive in there class. Much agreement but not completely. Interesting, after 3 months the students were asked to rank classmates again and the list vastly changed and was much more variable person to person, showing that you can literally become more attractive to people over time.

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Axonos•

dude that’s so wrong. that’s just an excuse to be self deprecating and call yourself ugly. beauty is entirely a social construct and is differs between individuals. don’t just call yourself ugly and give up, that’s pussy behavior

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MetaMetaSinManOP•

>le social construct

Nigga please. I thought this sub was black pilled

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Axonos•

does black pilled mean retard or what

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Axonos•

using “le” as a full grown adult in 2019 is a clear case of objective ugliness tho

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MetaMetaSinManOP•

Don't make double replies, especially if they're both attempts at trying to insult me after your original post was kind to me.

That really made you look emotionally weak, like my post making fun of your social construct concept really got to you, so you did a 180 on your frame.

So do you seriously not know what the black pill is? This sub aint for you.

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Axonos•

You all have such condescending and irritating personalities it’s hard not to lash out like that.

Seriously tho, please look up what beauty is, and get some information from somewhere that isn’t “black pill” subreddits.

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