Shock in a relationship, advice needed

1-The Emperor- it can mean stability etc. But I feel here it's somewhat inflexible

2- 6 of Pentacles reversed- Lack of generosity. Selfishness. I feel as though it's an unwillingness to be open and share, or someone who can only see what they're giving up, and not what they are receiving.

3-Ace of Wands- This is the one card that seems at odds with the rest of the reading. Usually this means to go for it, to begin something with energy, but that doesn't seem right in the context. Since its the advice to you- I think it means to begin something creative that you're passionate about.

4-The Knight of Pentacles- While most of the Knights are about action, this knight is standing still, admiring what he has. Knights are also somewhat immature, he's still developing. This one will probably take some time. He is in no hurry to get to the next card.

The lovers-while this seems positive it can also be a call to you to find some self love. I think you're going to need it if you want to wait him out.

The 6 of cups- nostalgia, what I'm getting more than anything is a yearning for the past when it seemed simpler.

The 4 of Wands I feel like this is your desire. You want him to he ready to commit and have a happy home/relationship. This is also reflected in the cards you pulled for yourself. (Empress and Ace of Cups.) Your love cup is overflowing and you want to give it to him now.

This isn't an impossible situation but I'm afraid it's going to take him some time to feel ready. I don't think it's a lack of feeling on his part, but he's not ready to jump in full yet. In the meantime you can wait around for him, or spend the time doing your own thing, and when he's ready. If you're still available, then you can go for it.

Edit: fixed spacing

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