I am sick of all the California bashing. Yes we did not pass prop 19, yes we failed to reject prop 8 but we did so by relatively narrow margins

That is much more than most other states can say.

Here is wikipedia on Same-Sex marriage in the US http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Same-sex_marriage_law_in_the_United_States_by_state

Here is wikipedia on Marijuana Laws in the US http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Map-of-US-state-cannabis-decriminalization-laws2.svg