I'm experienced, he's not- he's super sensitive and almost everything I do makes him feel discomfort rather than turned on. Sexxit, please help

Thanks to anyone taking the time to read.

Like I said in the title, he's a virgin, I've had about 15 partners (male and female). Both 23 years old. We're both ok with our histories and talked about things beforehand. We have pretty good communication I think, but I just dont know what to do. I'm trying to teach him about what feels good to me, but I dont want to push him too much, since despite all my experience, I don't seem to be doing much for him. He loves me kissing his neck and get really turned on when Im rubbing him outside of his pants. His touch is more tentative with me, but Im slowly teaching him. I grabbed his hand and guided it, showing him what feels good. I'm patient, its ok..

However, whenever I try to escalate anything with him, once it gets past the "teasing phase" with just running my hands over him lightly, he gets uncomftorable and moves my hand, telling me that he is really sensitive.. so if I am doing anything more than lightly touching him its too much. Finally I told him to show me what he does and he just barely pulls on himself, which I replicated and figured out.. he said he was feeling like he was close to cumming so I kept going but it didnt happen. And he was like "well then there's a trick" and tried to show me i guess this other move he switches too close to orgasm, but I just got frustrated and self conscious. It just seems so particular because when I was just doing a slight variation of what he showed me it wasn't working for him and I had to adjust.

He's apologized and we are agreeing to work through it, but its hard to contain my sexual frustration and resentment. I just want to move and touch and explore his body but now I just feel self conscious because I can't seem to do it for him.. and I am hesistant to ask for what I want since I can't pleasure him.

He liked oral, but it seems if I go beyond anything beyond caressing and try to start a "rythym" it doesn't do it for me. And before anyone says to just dump him because he's not worth it, kindly refrain. Thats a possibility if things can't be worked out, but I'd like to give other options a shot first.

Any advice is welcome, thank you.