Girl A or Girl B... really need some advice (update from first post 2 months ago)
First post here.
This past weekend my roomates and I hosted a halloween party at our place and the girl from my first post was there. An update on her: she has since broke up with her BF and is single. She has been pretty distant towards me in the last couple of months but I still have feelings for her.
Anyways, as the night went on and everyone started to get a little tipsy I recall sitting on the couch with 2 girls. Girl A, from my first post was on my left side and Girl B, who I've only met maybe twice before at parties and didn't really have any interest in, was on my right. At this point in the night, my confidence was high and I have no problem putting my arms around both girls as they're right close to me. I make more suggestive kino (leg/outer thigh rubbing) with Girl A, while my arm is still around Girl B whos IOI involve her touching my leg. It was basically a chain of IOI and my friend the day after mentioned how they were both following me around all night. Later on a bunch of people head over to my room and for whatever reason bring the party in there. Of these people, Girl A and B are both present. At this moment Girl B is sitting on the foot of my bed and I take a seat in my computer chair. I invite Girl A to sit on my lap since there were other people there and no other seating and shortly after that we were making heavy eye contake and talking real close. I moved in for the kiss and K closed with her. She seemed to like it but then she excused herself from the room. Girl B is still at the foot of the bed and decides to take this chance to pounce. I get up out of my chair to go join the rest of the party but she calmly pats the edge of the bed, inviting me to sit next to her. I oblige and begin making out with Girl B and she ended up staying the night.
I still have strong feelings for Girl A but Girl B is really interested in me and I be lying if I said I didn't have a bit of interest in her too. I've been talking to Girl B since the party and she wants to meet up again. Girl A I've talked to briefly online and seems normal.. but is still acting distant. I'm trying to determine if I should persue Girl A since I have more of an emotional connection (at least in my mind) with her. Or if I should go with Girl B which is more physical but has potential for the emotional connection as well.
I mean Girl A I've like for a real long time, but I haven't actually told her. I wrote up a note and everything today confessing that I like her which I'm just now trying to figure out if I should give it to her or not. I fear that if I do, Girl B will lose interest in me, as she definitely should but if Girl A is not interested then I'm again alone.
Need some help seddit.
EDIT: After viewing a recent post on Girl A's fb wall it seems she may be taken afterall. Girl B might have to be my choice. But I'd like some outside advice on this issue... the note is still ready to go.
Posted Nov 3, 2010, 5:19 PM UTC · edited