couples counseling?

Ive asked this in /nyc and /askreddit. they all pointed me here.

My relationship is taking a turn for the unhealthy side. arguing, physicality, poor communication... and we both end up feeling shitty when this happens. its taking a toll on both of us. the thing is, we knokw we can be good, we used to be good. we've always have communication problems, they just werent as volatile.

I'd really like to find some place for couples counseling for us, because he's willing and i think it could really help us to be happy again, with one another and ourselves in the relationship.

I'm poor. where ever i end up going, ill need it either free, with financial assistance, or a sliding scale based on income. My insurance is crap and doesnt cover such unnecessary things as couples counseling... psh.

so yeah, any advice would be very greatly appreciated. thanks ahead of time. =)

oh, and we're in the nyc area...