My Girlfriend has been having a really rough couple of weeks. What can I do to really cheer her up this weekend?
Hey RA,
Me and my girlfriend are both 19 and go too two different colleges. We are in a long distance relationship, but we see each other for 5 days every other week so about 10 days a month so its not too bad.
Anyway for some background her parents got divorced 5 years ago and they basically communicate through her and fight through her which as you can imagine puts a ton of stress on her all the time. Its so unfair that they do this too her as she's an only child, but its not really my place to step in and say something.
Anyway her dad just told her that he is getting married next month and so of course her mom found out and she's obviously not happy that her ex husband is getting married. My girlfriend always tries to please people and obviously her mom being so upset is killing her. She has been breaking down just about everyday she can't handle the stress and i feel horrible because any time i try to bring up the problems and help her out she just gets more upset.
Too add to all of this stress two weeks ago when I saw her we were using a condom that broke and she has missed her period by almost a week now. Though she has taken two pregnancy tests that both have shown up negative were not sure if she'ss missing her period because of the stress or if she's pregnant, which as you can imagine is adding a whole new level of stress.
So RA what can I do to really cheer her up this weekend, from just fun things to do, stuff I can buy for her, and I was thinking maybe there's a way I can spice up the sex to make it really great.
Any Idea's would help
Thanks
Posted Nov 3, 2010, 8:36 PM UTC