I need accounting career advice!

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I recently got a handful of job offers and have narrowed it down to two positions -- one from Deloitte (in advisory), the other from BDO (in audit). Obviously both are great companies so I am torn. Plus, the Deloitte job is not in the same city as my bf of 4 years and the BDO job is. So, here are my questions: 1. How important is the Big 4 name on my resume (vs. #5 BDO)? 2. How much should I weigh getting to be in the same city as my bf (who I'm sure I will marry)? 3. Are there any additional considerations I should factor in? I appreciate your feedback!!