Looking for advice

lookina get some advice on whether this is for me. Basically, I'm aroace, and I'm aware a lot of aroaces go agender as well, so I figure this could be worth looking into. I've never really understood why people care about what gender they present as, it always seemed superficial to me. I don't know whether this is because I just don't have those sort of feelings, or whether being cis is so convenient I just don't get it. I kinda feel like if I woke up one day with tiddies and a vagina I'd just kinda roll with it, because I'm a lazy bastard and trying to present more masculine again sounds like a lot of work for something I don't think I'd care about. but again, I don't know if this is because I should consider myself agender, or if I've just never had to face that kind of adversity.