Oculus vs Valve Index

I feel as if there is a marginal amount of people who see Oculus and other VR hardware as two different sides and it really perplexes me. I feel as if rather than turning this into Xbox vs PS4 we can just agree that both hardware have their pros and cons. We should all just work together to convince others who don't own VR what would be the best hardware for them and not to hope that certain platforms will get exclusive games that you can only play in VR while using their kit