For those who are struggling with 3rd parties
I am not a fan of SP stories but thought to share it because recently I saw many posts on people struggling with 3rd parties lol.I am not going to go in detail about our relationship in this post I'll be talking only about how I kicked 3rd party's ass overnight.Yes I am together with my SP & we have the deepest love connection ever.Feel free to ask if you have any questions.
My SP was dating another girl for seven months before that she was his friend for 3years & I didn't know at first that he's in a relationship but I came to know when my SP had sent me a pic with her. I knew that i created it very well.I was doubting my SP's faithfulness.I used to affirm I LOVE MYSELF full day for past many day's & I don't know why i should have felt frustrated about the pic but i didn't.I think self love overpowered all my fears & I felt neutral so i replied to him 'I am so happy for you' and left it at that because I knew it was temporary.I said to myself that I am God & looked at it from God's point of view.I relaxed took deep breaths and revised the pic and saw myself with him in the pic and repeated in my head over and over this HE SENT ME THAT PIC BECAUSE HE WANTS MY ATTENTION BADLY.HE'S INSECURE INSIDE.MY SP IS REGRETTING FOR SENDING ME THAT PIC.HE'S OBSESSED WITH ME,I AM CRAVED,I AM DEEPLY MISSED.NO ONE CAN REPLACE ME IN HIS HEART.I AM THE ONLY QUEEN OF HIS HEART.I AM DEEPLY LOVED.i just assumed what i wanted at that movement and felt peace. Next day here comes the fucked up part:he messaged me that he's so sorry for sending me that pic & they broke up.He told me that dating a third party was his biggest mistake and he's regretting.he told me he missed me so much couldn't stop thinking about me.he said that no one can replace me NO ONE,I am his love and forever I'll be his love.he told me he was insecure and jealous (of my male best friend whom I hang out with lmao....wait did I mention that?)and that's why he sent me that pic to make me jealous and said sorry and blahhh blaahhh.he even started comparing himself to my friend.he told me that he can't see me with any other guy and that I am forever his.Can you believe it within a day 3rd party was gone lol.We are together in a loving healthy relationship now.he's recording a love song for me on my name I am so excited.
So those who are struggling with third parties just stop giving energy to them.If you're doing meditations to get rid of them you're giving them energy STOP IT .Trying to get rid of 3rd party is like giving power to them in fact they are powerless.Change your assumptions & repeat it REPEAT REPEAT REPEAT.don't react to the physical world.3rd party will be gone automatically.I will recommend you to stop checking their socials for a month and do your inner work. I just assumed didn't do any SAT'S.
Posted Dec 1, 2019, 1:34 PM UTC · edited