r/gentlefemdom•
foxlink88

Decisions decisions. How should I be with my domme?

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Posted Dec 11, 2019, 8:48 AM UTC

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Just_another_docile•

Be a good boy and ask for rough pegging and spanking. Play like a game where if you make sound domme spank harder. Trust me it is really difficult.

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fbbqwertyfbb•

there's something so fun about being "vengefully fucked" though. Like asking for a rough pegging or spanking and receiving it is awesome but when she's getting back at you for being a brat, it's so beautifully spicy

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Just_another_docile•

My domme is actually intrested in that but i cannot be bratty without feeling bad. I am super docile so that is the best compromise we have for now. Maybe someday i will learn to be bratty...

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foxlink88OPSwitch•

I might have to try that with her. Thanks for this.

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SaunteringWoman•

OR,

Ask your dom for rough pegging and spanking, and then get those wonderful scritches and cuddles and general gentleness right afterwards. :)

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foxlink88OPSwitch•

This is usually how I do it. She only let's me brat a little bit. But, she's an amazing domme.

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SaunteringWoman•

Sounds like you guys have a great relationship.

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foxlink88OPSwitch•

We try. LDRs suck, but we're surviving.

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FirebatsInfinity•

Red with blue after.

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LiviaValentini•

I just don't reward bad behaviour!

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Prom000•

I know i Know only way to do it.

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s_hinoku•

My red button is permanently stuck down...

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sexystromboli•

Well Meme'd

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CrimsonRidingHoodMommy Dom•

Why not both?

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knyexar•

Blue 100%

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MentalMallard28Subly Switch•

Why not both?

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Gyrazal618•

There is a reason we have two hands...

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psdude45•

Why doesn't the good boy get pegged too?

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foxlink88OPSwitch•

I usually do

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Prom000•

Question: wouldnt being a brat be domming from the bottom? Or how it is call ed.?

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dirtyhappythoughts•

You're thinking of Topping from the Bottom. And the answer is: it depends. There are people who enjoy 'brat taming' and for them it would just be part of a healthy satisfying dynamic.

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Prom000•

So do it in Moderation, yes? In order for the sub Not to "abuse" it, tease and denial?

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foxlink88OPSwitch•

There's a line I know not to cross when it comes to bratting with my domme. Usually if I'm being a brat, she'll ask me if I'm wanting funishments. The answer is always yes. 🤣🤣🤣

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jane_duvall•

It all depends on your particular dynamic.

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Prom000•

i understand what you are saying. thanks.

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Pickle_boy109•

If someone upvotes and maked it 667 ill be angy

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Shyness1•

Red. Red. Always red

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follower45•

This is the hardest decision I have ever seen. I would push red first then behave like blue after we were done.

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