I (f19) feel like my bf (m21) gave up so quickly on our relationship because of an emotional roadblock he created.
My SO and I had an argument about something minor, and he feels that I'll hurt him like his previous girlfriends (he even compared me and a previous gf, when we have nothing in common).
He always would joke that I was cheating on him when I said things like, "I appreciate you", or if I don't react like a crazy person when he hangs out with his mates.
He called the relationship off because he can't see the point, and "it's not worth it". In my heart, I feel like it is worth fighting for but I'm scared to even try because he has already asked me "what I see in him that proves he can work through it". I just feel dishearted because I care so much about him, and want him to be able to see the positives in our relationship rather than look for any flaw that could hurt him later.
Posted Dec 14, 2019, 8:31 AM UTC