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FirstNamesMusic

It's like I'm in a crazy movie.

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No one believes me.

What the fuck.

My life is being torn asunder.

Everything I thought to be true about this person is untrue.

Now on a very public stage lies are being told about me and everyone believes them. What in the fuck.

A year and a half. A year and a half I endured this kind of abuse thinking it would get better.

Just because I'm a man doesn't mean I have feelings. In fact my feelings are very deep.

Now this happens, my reputation will NEVER be the same. I still stand up tall in front of others, but inside I weep.

People on the fucking internet say the most hurtful things to me. Usually I would laugh at this.

I dont want to give out details, I just wanted a place to vent. Hopefully someone reads this.

Yea, this is a pitiful post. But I needed it.

Posted Dec 16, 2019, 3:23 PM UTC

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Egalitarianwhistle•

Hop over to r/supportfortheaccused

You will be in good company. I'm sorry that happened. A false rape accusation is the worst type of lie.

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excess_inquisitivity•

Everything I thought to be true about this person is untrue

Yet everyone else is either convinced that its true or defends this person for some reason (ideology, sexism, racism...)

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Egalitarianwhistle•

I think people will discover what she is even if it takes years.

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Mythrobo•

Move to finland or a nordern area and start over. Gyow. Dont be a women hater, just go your own way.

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GrumpyGayGuy•

Its a lot harder than you think to let go of an anger like that. I myself am still every bit as angry now as the day something similar happened to me. Every time I start to heal and forgive a little bit, something else happens and I get discriminated against because of my gender and that refills the anger. I might be able to heal if this country stopped discriminating against men.

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throwlaca•

Attacking your reputation is equivalent to raping. Because rape attacks mostly the reputation of women, so you feel exactly like a women that has been raped. You will get better.

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specter_litt•

This.

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GrumpyGayGuy•

I just want you to know that you aren't alone. When I was an undergraduate, there was a professor who "warned" all of her female students and a couple of her female colleagues about me. She told them that I was a violent predator and to stay away from me. That if they didnt steer clear of me that I would attack them either physically or sexually, and because she is a woman and I am a man, everyone just believed her.

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AllegeddAssailantt•

Do the best you can to remain emotionally resilient. Document everything. Reach out to the ACLU if you have to. Hang in there buddy.

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Mackdude15•

False accusations are worse than rape

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contraterrene•

It sucks.

Can't even imagine how hard.

Delete all social media, move away and connect with new people on a face to face level.

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flow2high•

I saw a video/article once. "How to survive a SJW attack" it's pretty hard. Best wishes from me!

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