Any of you r/teenagers had/have a good experience dating your best friend?

Relationship

Posted Jan 2, 2020, 10:18 PM UTC

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MrDuckDentist•

Asked my best friend out and everything has changed now.

Ps: we are not dating

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CertainlyNotBrandonOP17•

How has it changed your friendship? Is it better or worse?

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MrDuckDentist•

It's just weird now. We both like each other but we can't be together because of complications. So it's a bit awkward :/

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to_kauli18•

Yeah. Our relationship lasted for about a month. She clearly wanted to be just friends

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CertainlyNotBrandonOP17•

But it was a good experience? Do you regret it at all?

How has it affected your friendship?

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to_kauli18•

It ended our friendship. We haven't talked since high school. I wish we could chat just for one more time. And no it wasn't a good experience. She was so awkward and like she wanted to be in a relationship with me and at the same time she didn't. That's the beat I can explain it.

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CertainlyNotBrandonOP17•

Are you over it? Wishing to chat once more seems like you still need some closure.

It sucks that it wasn't a great experience, but I appreciate you sharing your thoughts! I wish you the best this New Year!

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to_kauli18•

I'm over it but I miss her as a friend. Happy new year to you too bud

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Spaghetti_McBalls•

Oh boy here I go ^^' A year and a half ago I started sleeping with my best friend. We kept it secret from the rest of our friendgroup. We got along so well, eventually we fell in love I guess. We still kept it secret and didnt tell our other friends. Anyway after some time we started to fight a lot and didnt get along anymore so thats how it ended. We see every day at school, he still loves me as he confessed to me a month ago but I dont feel the same at all!! Its the exact opposite. Im constantly annoyed by him. Starting this with my...best friend was stupid...

But this is my experience. Yours could be different. I dont know the circumstances. But DM me if u wanna talk more, Im kinda interested :)

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CertainlyNotBrandonOP17•

I don't mind, I'm glad I only got serious responses lol.

Do you regret being your relationship? I can tell it was for the worse if you're constantly being annoyed.

I'll PM you my story so you can give me an opinion on it.

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Spaghetti_McBalls•

I dont really regret it because I also would have regretted it if we hadnt even tried. The mistake was trying to fix it for so long. Also we see each other every day at school which made it kinda worse

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CertainlyNotBrandonOP17•

Pm'd, goodluck !

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Itoaii16•

I messed it up.

She liked me for months, but I didn’t feel the same. Eventually I started liking her back, but the feelings hit like a truck.

At that point she was still into me, but also liked other guys. She ended up dating someone else. We didn’t talk much after that because it was real awkward.

After their relationship ended we started talking again but it was never the same

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