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AskReddit: how do I learn to dance?

I went to a christmas party, and there was dancing. I don't know how to dance. Wat do?

Posted Dec 15, 2010, 7:09 AM UTC

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jirf88•

Do what I do. Commit yourself to dancing badly with a stupid grin on your face.

Oh, and avoid cameras like the plague.

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khamul•

Elaine?

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jirf88•

For you? Sure ;)

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backbobOP•

Haha, will do. So leave any self esteem at the door, to be regained on the way out. Got it.

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jirf88•

Who said anything about re gaining it? But what you lose you get back in awesomeness rep. Just look like a tool and have fun doing it.

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remmycool•

Practice alone.

Find a song that's so infectious you just can't help but move to. Play it loud. Close the curtains. Let your body figure it out. Repeat. And then, when you go to a party which involves dancing, try to recreate that feeling.

You can also probably Youtube "how to dance."

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backbobOP•

Sounds like a plan. I will YouTube that, as well as use infectious music.

Thanks!

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backbobOP•

The kind with modern pop music where many people are on a dance floor moving up and down. But not grinding, I know that already.

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vazz•

Find a dance studio that will let you come and go as you please instead of a set schedule. Good way to meet girls, too.

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backbobOP•

Good advice. I do have a girlfriend, so that part isn't an issue. My main goal is to be able to go dance with her.

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DarlingDivaStar•

Lots of bars offer free lessons during their salsa/swing/tango/whatever nights. It's a good way to dance with your girlfriend in a setting where there's no pressure. Or spring for some lessons at a studio. You could even get a private lesson, and tell the instructor you want to focus on dancing in a social setting.

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