LPT fellow men: you don't need to be super beatiful or sexy to be attractive. You need to things: 1. The abillity to defend yourself 2. The abillity to care for yourself.

This is just the sum up of my experience and knowledge, don't take it for granted, but it helped me decenty.

1: the abillity to defend yourself comes down to your fitness, body language and means of fighting. It doesn't mean that you should be a douche who wants to beat someone, it means you have to stand strong and don't let anyone push you around. Learn using dominant posture, hit the gym or sth. Honestly for me, martial arts' lessons improved them all at once.

2: the abillity to care for yourself consits of general health and hygiene, clothing/accesories and economic status (let's not lie to ourselves, it really changes your outlook). This may sound weird at first, but it made sense to our ancestors - if you can care for yourself, you can care for your partner. And so, this is very important and also easily improvable: shower everyday, get a stylish haircut, buy some fitting clothes, ect. Economic status isn't as easy to improve though, but sertain finacial decisions do make a difference.

Well, this turned into hell of an essay, hope it helps.